Never Settle For Mediocrity, Strive For Success

August 24th, 2009

Motivation is what drives me to succeed.  It is the force which pushes me to circumstances that I was afraid to go into.  I have started venturing into roads that I never would have thought I would taken before.

How did I get here?  Looking to my past, I didn’t push myself at first.  I used to be easily satisfied.  I never questioned anything happening around me.  I never thought of improving life.  I was fine with maintaining status quo.

I didn’t see it before but a seed was planted in my mind.  As a young child, oblivious about the workings of the world, all I learned from were examples before me.  All I could learn from was really my family.  My parents did teach me foundations – the difference between right and wrong.  Besides them, I grew up learning from my sister, Ate.

As with most siblings, I always fought and bickered with her.  I tried my best to run the opposite direction from her path in life.  When she focused on her social life, I focused on my academic life.  When she focused on beauty, I focused on the unimportance of it.  As much as I treasured my unique identity, I couldn’t help but be influenced by her.  After all, I did spend about 60% of my life with her.

I realized that as my sister learned and repeated things she wanted to remember out loud over and over, I learned alongside her.  Pondering the source of my motivations, I realized that her motto that she used to repeat to herself had stuck to me as well – Never Settle For Mediocrity, Strive For Success.  Maybe it was in the back of my head all this time as I grew up.  Maybe this mentality pushed me to reaching for success in my academic life.  Whether it was the motto or just a coincidence, we both ended up go-getters later in life.

I cannot deny the role Ate played in being a positive influence in my life.  I witnessed her set her sights upon  reaching great achievements.  I know how much effort she puts into trying to attain the highest goals.  I see how her efforts do not go to waste and I commend her for her motivation.  I learned never to settle for mediocrity and strive for success.

Thank you, Ate, for being a good role model.  I hope you will continue to reach for the stars.

Happy Birthday, Ate!

Portrait Of A Good Thinker

August 23rd, 2009

From Thinking For A Change By John C. Maxwell:

Portrait Of A Good Thinker

  • Seeing the Wisdom of Big-Picture Thinking
  • Unleashing the Potential of Focused Thinking
  • Discovering the Joy of Creative Thinking
  • Recognizing the Importance of Realistic Thinking
  • Releasing the Power of Strategic Thinking
  • Feeling the Energy of Possibility Thinking
  • Embracing the Lessons of Reflective Thinking
  • QUestioning the Acceptance of Popular Thinking
  • Encouraging the Participation of Shared Thinking
  • Experiencing the Satisfaction of Unselfish Thinking
  • Enjoying the Return of Bottom-Line Thinking

Working As A Team

August 23rd, 2009

Techniques For High Performance

August 18, 2009 Workshop

By DDI – Development Dimensions International
http://www.ddiworld.com/

The Value of Teamwork

Working Together > Working Alone

Stages of Team Development

1. Getting Started – Getting to know members, learning about skills and expectations.  Defining goals, tasks and roles.

2. Going in Circles – Not able to meet goals, not working together, blaming each other, not working towards getting tasks done.

3. Getting on Course – Progressing towards goals, moving forward with ideas, constructive feedback, setting ground rules.

4. Full Speed Ahead – Progressing with speed and efficiency, working together, utilizing feedback, finding ways to improve.

Team Success Factors

  • Purpose - Something to strive for.  Gives team members direction (confidence in decision making and knowledge of what is important) and identity (team’s needs ahead of own needs, single voice).
  • Process - How to get things done.  Identify problems, develop solutions, analyze data, reach agreement.  Planning and organization.  Problem solving.  Setting ground rules.
  • Communication – An exchange of ideas and feelings based on respect.  Honest and sincere.  Encouragement, cooperation, conflict resolution.  Keeping everyone in the loop.
  • Involvement – Encouragement of participation and contribution.  Benefit from skills of all members.
  • Commitment – Giving 100%.  Member goals meet team goals so personal commitment supports team effort.  Sense of ownership and identity.
  • Trust - Ability to rely on others.  Allows risk taking, trying new ideas and taking initiative.

ABW Lyrical Class #6 with Derek Mitchell

August 16th, 2009

Today kicked my butt.  My knee high socks (hand me down from Henry) were too big, too sticky on the marley, and didn’t show the pointing of my toes enough so I’m switching back to my adidas no-shows.  My contacts dried up and were bothering me for half the class so I’m switching from Pure Vision back to Acuvue Oasis (<3 Oasis).  I got a blister on my foot yesterday too so that didn’t help much.  Overall, my turning was off.  This was unfortunate because we ended up doing a lot of turns today.

Derek asked the class what we wanted to learn the most.  We had only two classes left and he wanted to make sure we got what we wanted out of the class.  Of course, our class said we wanted to really get our turning technique down.  This was something I really wanted for myself.  I need to get the push off, the spotting, the balance, the momentum and the form down.  So far, I could do PK turns all the way from the left side of the room to the right but doing any sort of combination messes me up as I found out today.

Our across the floor exercise consisted of: Chaînés Turn, Coupé Turn, PK Turn, Compass Turn, then do the same turning the other direction.

We also learned how to do a Lyrical Pirouette.  He noted that it was especially important to get the prep down for this to work.  We prepped with a Tendu to second position, Demi Plie in fourth, then Passé.  After getting this down, we replaced the Passé with the actual turn.  Its pretty similar to what I had in a youtube video from my last posting on the Dance category.  Execution was hard for me to do.  It was most important to spot.  Overally I think I can execute turns fine as long as I have good socks and I take my time.  I can’t do it one after another very quickly though =/.

Our Routine:  Beautiful Disaster (Live) By Kelly Clarkson

  1. Jeté leap towards the Right
  2. Coupé
  3. Chaînés Turn towards the Left
  4. Rond de jambe right foot towards back to prep.
  5. Floor Roll on butt towards Right.
  6. Passé left foot up
  7. Crouch down.
  8. Dance step right then left foot clockwise from back to front.
  9. Relevé left foot while right foot does a Développé forward.
  10. Compass turn counterclockwise back to front.
  11. Passé right foot up.
  12. Point right foot forward.
  13. Step backwards on right foot dragging left foot pointing forward.
  14. Step backwards on left foot dragging right foot pointing forward.

Redeemer Notes – The Life of David – Covenant Love (Commitment)

August 16th, 2009

Notes from Tim Keller’s Sermon – Redeemer – 8/16/09, 10:30am

Covenant Love – 10th Sermon in Series: The Life of David – Commitment

2 Samuel 9:1-13

David and Mephibosheth

1 David asked, “Is there anyone still left of the house of Saul to whom I can show kindness for Jonathan’s sake?”2 Now there was a servant of Saul’s household named Ziba. They called him to appear before David, and the king said to him, “Are you Ziba?”
“Your servant,” he replied.

3 The king asked, “Is there no one still left of the house of Saul to whom I can show God’s kindness?”
Ziba answered the king, “There is still a son of Jonathan; he is crippled in both feet.”

4 “Where is he?” the king asked.
Ziba answered, “He is at the house of Makir son of Ammiel in Lo Debar.”

5 So King David had him brought from Lo Debar, from the house of Makir son of Ammiel.

6 When Mephibosheth son of Jonathan, the son of Saul, came to David, he bowed down to pay him honor.
David said, “Mephibosheth!”
“Your servant,” he replied.

7 “Don’t be afraid,” David said to him, “for I will surely show you kindness for the sake of your father Jonathan. I will restore to you all the land that belonged to your grandfather Saul, and you will always eat at my table.”

8 Mephibosheth bowed down and said, “What is your servant, that you should notice a dead dog like me?”

9 Then the king summoned Ziba, Saul’s servant, and said to him, “I have given your master’s grandson everything that belonged to Saul and his family. 10 You and your sons and your servants are to farm the land for him and bring in the crops, so that your master’s grandson may be provided for. And Mephibosheth, grandson of your master, will always eat at my table.” (Now Ziba had fifteen sons and twenty servants.)

11 Then Ziba said to the king, “Your servant will do whatever my lord the king commands his servant to do.” So Mephibosheth ate at David’s table like one of the king’s sons.

12 Mephibosheth had a young son named Mica, and all the members of Ziba’s household were servants of Mephibosheth. 13 And Mephibosheth lived in Jerusalem, because he always ate at the king’s table, and he was crippled in both feet.

My Notes:

How is Christianity different from other religions in their teachings/beliefs?  They all teach about loving one another, etc.  In Christianity, we are taught to LOVE YOUR ENEMIES (Matthew 5).

In groups, people sacrifice in order to commit to something (flourishing of the group, committing to activities, etc).  It takes this sacrifice in order to gain.  We want a God who can have control over our lives but it takes complete submission.  This is the only way to perfect freedom.

`Tis not that I did choose thee, For, Lord that could not be;
This heart would still refuse thee, Hadst thou not chosen me.
Thou from the sin that stained me hast cleansed and set me free;
Of old thou hast ordained me, that I should live to thee.`Twas sov’reign mercy called me and taught my op’ning mind;
The world had else enthralled me, to heav’nly glories blind.
My heart owns none before thee, for thy rich grace I thirst;
This knowing, if I love thee, Thou must have loved me first.”

–Josiah Conder

How do we give up our freedom?

Saul was to annoint David as successor king, not his son Jonathan.  David and Jonathan had a covenant of friendship.  Jonathan gave his life and lost his throne for David out of friendship.

We have a friend who lost his heavenly throne and lost his life for us.

Christian commonality in love for Jesus.

Henry’s notes:

C.S. Lewis = “Abolition of Man”

- All religions of the world the same ETHICALLY (How we live) -> don’t lie, steal, murder, honor family, etc… They differ subterraneanly (How we’re SAVED)

EXCEPTION

“Love Your Enemy”! – unique ethic to Christianity. No other religion.

BUT -> Don’t make it easy for enemies to sin against you.  Do not confront, humiliate, condescend.  Must be loving.

King David

- Didn’t “purge’ old enemies from regime (who could kill him)

- “Adopted” his enemy, generously gave and reached out, made enemy his son.

Christian Ethic to do this? Based on how we’re saved.

How can we do such a thing? Commit or Consume? Commit! Must sacrifice freedom to experience covenant love of peers.

Covenant love -> King Saul’s son Jonathan (rightful heir) -> relinquished trhone to David while “loving” him, protecting David from his father Saul. Eventually laid down his life.

What did Jesus lose and sacrifice for us?

“Christianity is a band of enemies, living with each other through Christ.”